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Tips to prepare and support you over the holiday

As we come towards the winter solstice our natural tendency is to go inwards to reflect on the year gone and plant seeds for the year ahead. The arrival of Christmas with its expectations, commercialism and family gatherings is the exact opposite! Here are some ideas to help you keep calm and enjoy ChristmasTips to prepare and support you over the holiday

Take an active role in planning:

  • Start a new tradition
  • Choose what works best for you – an activity, venue, timing, catering etc., start and end time.
  • Schedule a walk or create space for those who need time out.
  • Set a positive intention for the event.
  • Decide to make the best of a less than ideal situation.

Remember:

  • Nothing is every personal.
  • It is not compulsory to take part in the drama.
  • You don’t always have to be right.
  • Other opinions are allowed!
  • Its ok to say “that doesn’t work for me”.
  • Your response or reaction is the only thing that you can control.

Ask yourself:

  • Are my expectations realistic (life is not idyllic as portrayed in the media)
  • Will it matter in an hour, a day or a week?

Be kind to yourself:

  • Avoid too many commitments.
  • Schedule some me/couple/treat time.
  • Take a one or two minute break and breathe deeply, inhale love, exhale negative thoughts.
  • Do things that make you smile/laugh.
  • Give yourself a hug or pat on the back – sometimes getting up/through the day is a major achievement.
  • You are the best you in the whole universe.

Simple treats:

  • Self-massage with warm sesame oil
    Sesame oil is widely used in ayurveda and can help ground and calm promoting sleep. It is widely available in independent health food shops and online. Avoid the toasted variety unless you want to smell like a stir fry! Coconut oil or specialist ayurvedic massage oils are also available.
  • Treat yourself to a good book, or film
  • Listen to some relaxing or inspirational music
  • Light scented candles, or vaporiser
  • Take a candle lit bath.
  • Book a yoga course and relaxation events 🙂

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Samhain — When the Veil Grows Thin

Today, as autumn’s final breath stirs the mist and the year’s wheel turns once more, we arrive at Samhain — the ancient Celtic festival marking the end of the harvest and the beginning of the dark half of the year.

It’s a liminal time, when the veil between worlds grows thin. The boundary softens between seen and unseen, life and death, past and present. The old ones called it a night of spirit-walking, of ancestor honouring, and quiet tending to the mysteries within.

The Silence of the Turning Year

As leaves fall like golden prayers to the earth and the land retreats into stillness, we too are invited to turn inward. To listen to what is dying away in our own lives. To honour what no longer serves, and to make gentle peace with endings.

This is not a time of fear, but of reverence. The darkness holds wisdom. The hush of the earth at rest reminds us that we, too, need spaces of quiet, reflection, and release.

A simple practice:
Light a single candle as dusk falls. Speak aloud the names of loved ones who have gone before. Thank them for their presence in your life, and listen for the quiet gifts they still offer you.

Ancestral Threads and Quiet Remembrance

Samhain asks us to remember we belong to a lineage of souls — those who walked before us, who sowed the seeds we now tend. In honouring them, we honour the roots that hold us, the stories that shaped us, and the wisdom that carries us forward.

Whether through a whispered prayer, a shared story, or a meal cooked in remembrance, this is a beautiful time to weave those threads between worlds.

The Quiet Quickening

Though this is a time of endings, it is also the quiet beginning of a new cycle. Beneath the cold earth, seeds of next year’s life sleep. Within our hearts, new dreams stir in the darkness.

Let yourself be still enough to feel what is quietly calling you. Not with urgency, but with the gentle certainty of dawn following night.

You are part of the old rhythm — death and rebirth, dark and light, silence and song.

Give Yourself the Gift of Presence

Ever wondered why us yogis keep asking you to notice, share your experience and how you feel? It gives the mind a positive focus and brings you into presence. This is why you feel so good at the end of the class.

Pure presence leads to calm, peace, and deep healing. It can illuminate the unknown and show when healing is complete. As a healer and teacher, I can guide, facilitate and support. The act of Presence is for you alone. In Presence you feel, befriend and integrate all parts of your being.

Presence is the ultimate expression of unconditional love.

It can be fascinating but not always easy or comfortable. I’ve discovered missing pieces of my story, catalysed tears and bathed in lightness of the release. When the time is right and I’m able to hold it, something new arises. This is the highest form of practice.

There is a space in the mandala of life that only you can fill.

Regular practice develops your presence muscle. Start small, where you are with something that works for you. Free flow movement, doodling, are as valid as silent, structured practices. Let it develop as you do. Be gentle and compassionate. There is a reason for your feelings and vulnerabilities, knowing and unknown. You are special, worthy and belong because and in-spite of everything.

We become Whole when in Pure presence of the Self. There is peace and unity.


Om shanti, shanti, shanti.
With unconditional love,
Suzan

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The First Harvest — Tending to the Fruits of Lammas

🌾 Honouring Lammas — A Time of First Harvest and Inner Ripening

As the sun climbs high in the summer sky and its light softens into the rich warmth of late summer, we come to the sacred festival of Lammas, or Lughnasadh — the time of the first harvest. This is a celebration of abundance, a moment to pause and reflect on what has grown in the earth and within our own hearts. Lammas marks the point where summer begins its gentle transition into autumn, and the first fruits of the season are gathered.

A Time of Gathering and Gratitude

Lammas is a festival deeply rooted in the cycles of nature. Traditionally, this festival was a time to give thanks for the first crops of the harvest — the grain that would sustain families through the coming months. The name “Lughnasadh” comes from the Celtic god Lugh, who was associated with craftsmanship, the sun, and the harvest. In ancient times, people would offer bread and grain to the gods, giving back a portion of what had been gifted by the earth. This was an act of gratitude, acknowledging the earth’s generosity and the delicate balance between giving and receiving.

For us, Lammas invites us to reflect on the ways in which we, too, are harvesting what we have sown. It’s a time to consider what we’ve planted in our lives — whether it be relationships, creative projects, personal goals, or spiritual practices — and what has come to fruition. Just as the earth gives freely, we are encouraged to appreciate the abundance we have received, recognizing the growth that has occurred within ourselves.

Nourishment for the Body, Mind, and Spirit

The energy of Lammas is one of nourishment, not just of the body, but of the soul. It is a time to bask in the bounty of summer and to allow ourselves to savour the fruits of our labour. But it is also an opportunity to examine how we nourish ourselves in a deeper sense — how we nourish our creativity, our connections, and our well-being.

In the bustle of everyday life, it can be easy to forget the importance of self-care and nourishment. Lammas asks us to reflect on this. How are we tending to our inner world? How are we allowing ourselves the space to grow and ripen in the same way the crops do? Just as we take in the first harvest, we must also cultivate the habits and practices that allow our spirit to thrive.

The Gifts of the Season

Lammas is a festival of abundance, but it is also a moment of balance. As we gather what has ripened, we are reminded that the earth is both generous and demanding. This balance is reflected in the way we harvest — we take what is ripe and ready, but we also leave space for the earth to rest and regenerate. It is a time to consider how we balance the energy we put out into the world with the energy we receive.

Consider the things in your life that are ready to be “harvested” — those projects or personal intentions that are now ripe for fruition. It may be a creative endeavour, a relationship, or even an aspect of your personal growth. Lammas offers a chance to pause, give thanks, and reflect on how we can honour the cycles of growth, rest, and renewal that are part of the natural world.

Honouring the Harvest Within

In addition to gathering the physical harvest, Lammas encourages us to honour the harvest within. This is a time to reflect on what has grown in our hearts and minds throughout the year. What lessons have you learned? What seeds of intention did you plant earlier in the year that are now beginning to take root? Lammas asks us to pause and take stock of our own personal growth, to express gratitude for the wisdom and experiences that have shaped us.

We are all, in our way, tending the gardens of our lives — and just as the earth needs rest and renewal, so too do we. Lammas reminds us to take time to honour the fullness of the season, to rest in gratitude for what has been harvested, and to reflect on how we can care for our inner landscapes as we move toward the darker days ahead.

Celebrating with Ceremony and Ritual

To mark Lammas, you might consider creating a simple ritual or ceremony to honour the season. This could be as simple as spending time in nature, offering thanks for the abundance in your life, or preparing a meal with seasonal ingredients. Baking bread, using grains that are central to this festival, can be a beautiful way to connect with the energy of Lammas. You could also light candles in a circle, symbolizing the ripening of the light, and spend time reflecting on what is ready to be harvested in your life.

Gathering wildflowers, making offerings of bread, or lighting a fire to symbolise the sun’s strength are all beautiful ways to connect with the ancient spirit of this festival. Whatever practices you choose, remember that Lammas is about celebrating the fullness of the present moment, honouring the earth’s abundance, and nurturing the harvest within.


Universal Peace Prayer/Mantra

In the spirit of peace…

I offer you Peace
I offer you Friendship
I offer you Love
I hear your needs
I see your beauty
I feel your feelings
All wisdom flows from the highest source I honour that source in you
Let us work together
For you are my own true self
And I am another your self and so it is

Om Shanti
Believed to be inspired by the teachings of figures like Mohandas Gandhi, author unknown

From Suffering to Serenity – The Klesha

The mind is a wonderful tool, we couldn’t do without it, yet it can take us to some dark places.

‘A drunken monkey, bitten by a scorpion’ is my favourite description of the mind.

The mind is designed as a team player – working with the heart brain and gut brain – but it runs amok when in the driving seat!

The mind creates a world view to maintain it’s supremacy. When it feels threatened the mind will bring up every disaster scenario possible! Often in the middle of the night.

How many times have you looked back and thought I knew that was right/wrong and done it anyway? Our gut feeling and instincts are important and valuable yet mind supremacy is deeply embeded.

For thousands of years intuitive and 6th sense gifts have been dismissed, ignored and at times resulted in persecution. It is not surprising that we have lost the connection to our heart and gut knowings. This overreliance on the mind is where the seeds of suffering are planted. which The yogis identify 5 root causes of our suffering – The Klesha

When we view the mind as sovereign we we are not seeing clearly. There is a lack of insight (Avidya).

The Ego rules (Asmita). Forgetting our true nature, we base our happiness on external factors. We confuse our uniqueness as superior and separate from the flow of life rather than interbeing with all life.

“He who sees all beings in the Self, and the Self in all beings, he never turns away from it [the Self]. For he who perceives all beings as the Self, how can there be delusion or grief when he sees this oneness everywhere?” “Isha Upanishad” Yogapedia

Giving our power to external objects is a great tactic of the mind.  The relentless need for new possessions, relationships etc. in pursuit of happiness – Raja – brings only fleeting results. Perhaps we learn to avoid instead – Dvesha.

The Tree of Suffering – source: samanyayoga.co.uk / www.yogitimes.com/

There is a force, flow, energy in the cosmos that continually changes. Although we are powerful spiritual beings with great potential, we have no control over this energy. Part of us is aware of this changing force even in our deepest separation. As the ultimate change is death with the resulting loss of all things physical. it gives context to why we know from day 1 we will die and yet we (in the West) rarely mention or prepare for it.

Yoga provides many tools to unite all aspects of the Self including mind, body, spirit, gross and subtle. We have time to get to know all our parts in a way that is accessible to us – movement, breathing, mantra, meditation etc. Here we can truly get to know both our separateness and interconnection to all life – the wave and the ocean.

The mind becomes a co-worker with the heart and gut brain. As we embrace all we are we can experience moments of bliss. (The Ananda Maya, the bliss body the final sheath/kosha of our subtle body).

It starts by becoming aware, in this moment, then this moment on and off your mat, in a way that works for you.

Moon Magic or Mayhem?

What a summer! Nature is looking stunning from all the rain! Last summer everything looked brown, dried out and dying. No wonder we talk so much about the weather!

We too need water to be vibrant and healthy. A huge percentage of the body is water. Figures vary according to age and body part. I haven’t found a consistent figure. A conservative estimate is a minimum of 50%.

‘According to natural health expert Dr Joseph Mercola, your blood contains 85% water, muscles contain 80%, the brain is 75% and your bones are 25% water’.

Just as the oceans are bodies of water so too are we, and like the waves we are impacted by the moon. 

The full moon exerts a strong pull on water. Every 10 or so years there are 2 full moons in a month which is known as a blue moon. A supermoon is when the moon is closest to the earth. Both events increase the intensity – positive or seemingly negative. 

The pull of the moon affects us on all levels. Physical issues may show up again. Emotions often run high! I’ve been told that for decades police, hospitals etc. have had extra staff around the full moon. The term ‘lunatic’ relates to moon madness.

Clients have shared dramatic events around full moon – left a toxic relationship; a loved one exploded, they felt engulfed in a tsunami of emotions. Another hadn’t slept for several days.

Life may be challenging for a while. Self-awareness brings opportunities to use these energies to our benefit. It’s a great time to work. The powerful energies can catalyse momentum. We can use them to break through old, heavy energies and heal. The vibration on earth is increasing. There is great potential for deep, swift healing of self, our ancestral line and the collective. Mayhem becomes magic!

This is where our yoga, meditation and healing circles support us.

Is it time to revisit your self-care practices?

My personal practice, keeping well hydrated, nourished and spending time in nature anchor me in stormy times. I am supported by my friends and healing team too.

Water for Well-being

I read an interesting book on hydration called Quench (8 glasses a day is not the way!) by Dana Cohen MD and Gina Bria. It’s based on the relatively new discovery of the 4th state of water, a gel state. My top 3 takeaways are:

1.    Add a teaspoon of chia seeds to a glass of water, (leave for at least 30 minutes before drinking). The seeds absorb the water meaning that rather than flushing straight through it is stays in the body for longer. 

2.    A pinch of good quality salt helps replace electrolytes lost when we sweat, or diluted through excessive liquid consumption etc.

3.    Rather than having 2 glasses of water at the same time have an apple and one glass. The fibre in the apple holds the liquid for longer rather than flushing straight through.

Ocean waves

The Healing Power of Water

Water is living, it holds an energy which can change as can we. Dr Masaru Emoto’s experiments on water studied the effect of the spoken or written word and music. When positive words, such as peace, love, happiness, and gratitude, were spoken to or written on a container of water, beautiful crystals formed. Similarly, attractive crystals developed with music like “Amazing Grace” and Beethoven’s Pastoral Symphony. When negative words—“you make me sick,” “anger,” “evil”—or heavy metal music were used, the result was a less attractive, poorly formed crystal. (More info in The Healing Power of Water by Masaru Emoto).

If this resonates you might also like to research structured water. It restores the natural vitality of water that is lost when it is in pipes. 

Summer is coming to an end and as we welcome autumn we will soon return to a regular schedule. Routine is grounding and settles vata. Whatever your predominant body type/dosha vata usually becomes disturbed with change of season.


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Finding Unity in a Fragmented World!

Such interesting times we have chosen to incarnate. The much-heralded unity Consciousness has not yet arrived. Darkness abounds. Fear and separation take us further from the unity we seek. Yet nothing is new, perhaps more intense, and visible. Yogic Philosophy refers to these times as The Kali Yuga the last of 4 phases in the wheel of time. The old systems disintegrate making way for a new beginning/cycle which starts with the Golden Age. Hooray 😊

Transitions are often tumultuous. Yoga provides tools, support, and structure to navigate challenges, thrive and create unity in YOUR world.

Take a break from trying to figure things out and keep up with twists, turns and possible outcomes. Notice where you spend your energy. How would it be to invest that energy in creating peace and unity in your personal world?

Unity Yoga guides you to a state of freedom and unity with your true nature.

The first 3 steps of are in the outer world – yama, niyama, asana – primarily linked to our physical body and how it interacts with the world. 

Tools here are all about the physical/body, individual traits and becoming more aware of relationship to self, others, and environment. Slow, mindful movement supports self-awareness, although you may need to start faster and slow gradually.

The next 2 steps take us towards our inner world – pranayama, pratyahara – they are more subtle aspects of Self – vitality, thoughts/emotions, where we are getting to know our higher self/inner witness. Tools include yogic breathing, moving meditations such as the caring breath, mudras, and palming.

The final 3 steps of the path are qualities of meditation – dharana, dhyana, samadhi –the least tangible aspects of Self. Glimpses of being completely absorbed in the moment; a state of bliss arise.

Tools include ritual, devotion, and meditation. We move into and out of the various stages of meditation. It is not a linear process. Our focus may become distracted. Other times the flow of awareness (to the object of meditation) becomes more constant, and we have moments of complete absorption. You may have experienced this when watching a sunset or listening to classical music.

Every part of us and each step on the path are linked. A large sheet of fascia runs from the feet up the back of the body to the head. Whatever happens in the body affects our vitality/prana and emotions and vice versa. When our witness self sees the world free from conditioning and survival instincts it is reflected in body and breath. Often there is a radiance and look of wellness as if a heavy load has been shifted.

We have created a new reality.

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Yoga for Healing and Grounding

Yoga is a rich source of ancient knowledge underpinning many common spiritual beliefs.

The Yoga Sutra of Patanjali explains the nature of the mind. It’s 8 steps – astanga yoga – guide us from unconsciousness and suffering to freedom ‘kaivalya’. Here the mind ‘cit’ is no longer in the driving seat. Instead, there is discernment. An awareness of the difference between stories, patterns, mental chitter chatter and the innate wisdom of the soul/spirit. This is the ultimate truth.

What happens in the mind is reflected in both body and breath. Appropriate movement tames the breath calming the mind. Simple breathing techniques stabilise, and ground body which calms the mind. We develop self-awareness, self-acceptance and create the arena for insights and change. This knowing supports all areas of life. We begin to see beyond the suffering and illusions of the human condition.  

Yoga Nidra

When we are relaxed change and rational thinking are accessible. Until this time, they are at best unreliable.

Yoga nidra helps settle a restless mind. It supports sleep, reduces anxiety, and promotes deep relaxation. The mind is positively occupied as it follows the directions around the body and senses making it less likely to drift. You will receive the benefit even if you fall asleep!

Yoga nidra can be practiced as part of a class or on its own. It brings relaxation which is far greater than the time practiced.

Including Yoga nidra  at the end of our physical practice supports integration and alignment of the physical and nonphysical bodies/kosha  – the energy, mental/emotional, wisdom, and bliss bodies – making it a great support to our healing practice.